Sunday, June 10, 2007

QUESTION


There was this story i heard about some writer like that, who was married to a Jamaican guy who was like i think more than 10 years her junior. The guy later left her for another guy. As if that wasn't enough, he took her to court cause he wanted a settlement from the woman. The woman (don't remember her name) wrote a book about it, & i heard about this from the Oprah show. The woman & the guy both came to the show & she was telling Oprah that the guy married her for her money & to get an American Passport.The guy said that that was not the case. the woman then said that she was sure that the guy knew he was gay when he married her. Oprah asked if he knew he was gay & he couldn't answer. The story goes on & on but thats not the point. I just mentioned this because it will lead me to the question i would like to ask you guys.


QUESTION: What would you do if someone you were dating left you for another person of the same sex??? How would you feel??? Send in your thoughts & comments.



39 comments:

Andy said...

God forbid bad thing! Tu fi akwa!!!

azuka said...

Not bad. I believe in letting people choose their own destinies. I'll let go.

Israel Izz Mlambo said...

I'd restrain my killer instincts and bade them farewell on a life of perfect misery. No hard feelings.

IJEOMA said...

well i would actually prefer that a man left me for a man than he left me for a woman..

~Mimi~ said...

Me i dont know the answer to that question oh, but this one i know VOTE FOR MIMI!!!!!!!!! WHICH DIARY OF A G IS IT? PLS O, ITS MIMI ALL D WAY! LOL

~Mimi~ said...

but seriously, i will make sure i turn all the gayness in him right back to straight, him and who????? nonsense! after i now turn him straight, i will now dump his ass!

Anu boy said...

lol.... so a babe leaves me to date anoter woman... cool
thanks for stopping by.. cheers

Im A Babe said...

um i dont think ild be as hurt as if it was 2 be a woman he left me 4.
"go d fuck on mate but just be careful with ur asshole" is wat i'ld tell him(Lol) IM SO MEAN!

wienna said...

U're talking about Terri Walker, d afro-american writer. I feel so sorry for dat woman. And to think one of her best-selling novels up-to-date was based on her love story is sooo sad. I watched d Oprah show as well and she sounded so bitter and betrayed about d whole situation.
BTW, when r u going to continue d story from Beatrice story? I never forget, u know. lol

Idemili said...

You'll always wonder if you turned him gay. Thunda faya!

@Azuka: Where have you been nooow? Yu left me?

Kafo said...

hmmmm
dang
seriously
i mean that is the kind of stuff that messes with a person's mind for real

diary of a G said...

lol at mimi's second comment...u go girl..the first one wasn't funny
quit playing Vote G for UR Idol

back to my Girl Chidi's question
I think i would prefer my partner to leave me for the same sex(a female get that straight...fire pun dat jamo batty boy)...

Think about it.. the jokes on them...sure the news would piss me off but i could easily move on
cause I still got my dignity

VOTE 4 IDOL

Nyemoni said...

WOW... Loaded question... What would I do??? I really cannot say, but I know what I wouldn't do!
I wouldn't kill myself,
I wouldn't go ant fight the other (wo)man(lol)
I wouldn't be happy about it!!!

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jadedjune said...

yeah, wasnt it the woman that wrote "how stella got her groove back"?
yeah thats the one....
if a guy left me for a guy???? a naija guy wud never admit that though.....the whole gay thing is still a taboo and not to be admitted innit?

Klara said...

Is that How Stella got her groove back? I mean the book..
Wow! Hard quiz that one! I guess I would be so shocked! Bt Honestly it would be relieving to know after all he didn't leave me 4 another woman!! LOL

chicala said...

I'l feel like i'v wasted my time on the whole thing, and that'l be rily annoying.

Second thot, i might jst wonder if i made him change his mind about being attracted to the opp sex as in seriously is he trying to say i'm so unsexy that he thinks some1 of same sex is sexier or what?

temmy tayo said...

Good riddance to bad rubbish!

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chidi said...

LOL @ wienna. I almost 4got about the story but i will continue it one of this dayz.

~mimi~ said...

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww i have another blogger fan!!! lol. at leaast that i know of! i checked if you had a voice comment i was going to sing you a song! lol, i shouldnt get carried away abi. Tonks babe!!! MWAHHHHHHHH!

Ugo Daniels said...

I'd say Good riddance to Bad rubbish...nonsense OR persuade both of them to stay with me and we can all have a threesome 'forever'. Damn, dats my number 1 fantasy..Sorry, did i just say that! Damn!!!

lost-not yet found said...

thanx 4 dropping by...

Lemme see... if a woman left me for another woman.. I would delude myself that she was leaving to get something no other man could give her...or maybe I put her off men..

princess said...

I really dont know how i will feel cos i may just be in love with this person but at the end of the day, one just has to let go, he/she made their choice.

mwangi said...

my first time on your pad ... will come back!!

The Blahnik Diva said...

i would be FUCKING PISSED! i no the story you are talking about . but if the guy says he no do then good bye to him

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Simply Gorgeous said...

The person you are referring to is Teri McMillan. And what would I do, I would be devastated curse his ass out and move on. Maybe first I would feel like killing him though seriously. But how could you not see that Christopher Plummer was gay I mean c'mon.

catwalq said...

I will let him go and if he comes back for alimony, I will shoot him. Ori e lo buru. U cheat and then u want me to pay u compensation. Even if it was another woman; if Catwalq no gree ur bele, comot. If u wan thief Catwalq money, Gbosa!!!!

Be silent said...

You know what i would thank God for taking him out of my life coz such pple are usually psychos. That is pretty messed up.... Would not Shed a tear for that Bugger

Delilah 3 said...

yawah don gas be dat. really i wouldnt know what to do sha. I would feel dirty,cheated and betrayed. and on national TV i go bite the person,Oprah or no Orprah.

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Jaybabe said...

..lol@mimi..would you really do that?

I'll back Ijeoma on this one.

And with note that life is all about choices.I mean i can't force somebody to be with me can i?..might as well let them go,to save myself stress and misery...

Jaybabe said...

..lol@mimi..would you really do that?

I'll back Ijeoma on this one.

And with note that life is all about choices.I mean i can't force somebody to be with me can i?..might as well let them go,to save myself stress and misery...

Jaja said...

My girl leave me for another girl??

Dont know what i ll do. get lost in a big book?

But then..Aren't all girls supposed to be like latently Les???
(not my opinion oo.. i read am somwhere!)

Lola Gets said...

I would defenitely NOT feel like I "turned him gay." Theres NOTHING that I could do to make a man want to put a dick in his mouth or ass!
LOL
I might be mad for two reasons:
1) If he had knowd/suspected, and wasted my time
or
2) Engaged in risky sexual behavior with other men, putting my health at risk. THAT would make me want to kill him!
L

iROCKORiGiNALiTY said...

Really disappointed I cant imagine such..